
I wasn't miserable in my old role. People always expect that part of the story. It wasn't like that.
What I kept noticing was the gap between what clients actually needed and what they were getting. The relationship was transactional. Work came in, work went out, invoice sent, repeat next year. Nobody was proactively thinking about these businesses. And clients didn't know enough to ask for something different.
I wanted to build something where the relationship itself was the point. Where clients weren't a number on a billing sheet but a business I actually knew - one I was genuinely invested in.
The first six months were harder than I expected. Not the work — I knew the work. Building a client base from scratch when you're not a natural salesperson is slower than you want it to be. I had to get comfortable having direct conversations about value. About why someone should choose me over a firm that's been around for twenty years.
What actually worked: getting specific about who I was for. Not trying to be everything to everyone. Saying clearly -I work with founders and business owners who are building something real. That specificity cut through faster than anything else I tried.
If you're thinking about going out on your own, what's the thing holding you back?
